Sunday, January 29, 2012

Things I Love About You

About a month or so after I met JJ, I started sending him little text messages enumerating the things I loved about him. Now, this doesn't sound like it would be very difficult, and it is pretty easy for someone as wonderful as JJ, but imagine trying to keep the list going without repeating. It can be a challenge, especially as you are getting to know someone.

Our relationship started as a sexual one.  As we got to know each other, though, a genuine friendship developed. And it just kept growing deeper.

I am a firm believer in letting the people you love know that you love them and why - and telling them often.

Normally, I would never share something like this because it's ours. Not everything that happens in a relationship should be made public. Sometimes I feel like some of the specialness is lost when something shared between two people becomes public.

So, why am I sharing this with you now?

Two reasons -
  1.  JJ decided that we'd share more about our relationship in this blog. This is something I wouldn't put on Prowling with Kat. It's too intimate.  I realize that may sound strange since PWK has explicit sex stories and many other intimate posts, but this is different.  I think most of you will know what I'm talking about. 
  2. In this case, I know that sharing these with you will not make them less special in any way. In fact, I think sharing them might help you understand what I see in JJ and what I cherish about him.
To get the full effect, you can't think of them as a list.  You have to imagine getting them sent to you as random texts, sometimes two or three in a day, sometimes only one in two or three days. Unexpected. A surprise.
Here are the first ten "Things I Love About You" texts I sent to JJ:

Things I love about you #1: I love the way you kiss me.

Things I love about you #2: I love how close and connected you are with your family.

Things I love about you #3: I love the way you hold my hand when we meet for coffee or a quick hello.

Things I love about you #4: I love the way you are so positive and content with your life.

Things I love about you #5: I love the sound of your laughter.

Things I love about you #6: I love the way you make me feel like the most loved person in the world when I am with you.

Things I love about you #7: I love that you are a problem solver and a doer. If something needs to be done, you just do it instead of waiting for someone else to do it.

Things I love about you #8: I love that you are an optimist.  The glass is almost always half full for you, rather than half empty.

Things that I love about you #9: I love the way you look right after we make love - satisfied, content, happy.

Things I love about you #10: I love that if you don't know how to do something, you learn how.

This is just the beginning. I think we're somewhere in the 80's now. Thinking about things I love about him never gets old.

And JJ - They are all still true.


Your assignment - Go tell someone you love that you love them.  Right now.  This moment.  Don't wait. Life is shorter than you think.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Pleasant Surprise AT Work

So, yesterday I was at work and my phone started chiming, I had an email.  This isn't an unusual thing.  But when it comes from Kat, I try to quickly make my way to the restroom (where I can have some privacy) to get a gander at it.  Well I have to say that I wasn't disappointed!  In my inbox were not just one, but two pics of Kat!

It was a simple email, no message other than "For You" in the subject and in the body, a gorgeous pic of her pussy spread open with two of her fingers showing me her clit and and an inviting wet spot that I knew was the tight, little, entrance inside her.  Kat knows that nothing gets me hotter faster than seeing her pussy splayed open in all it's glory, and there it was!  At that moment all I wanted to do was lick my iPhone!

The second email was addressed in the same discreet way, but when I opened it there was a pic of Kat's breasts and she was pulling on one of her nipples...  I know how much she loves that and at that moment, all I wanted to do then was oblige her!

The combination of both of these pics got me thinking about the last time we were together.  How I love to play with her nipples, gently biting them, twisting them with my teeth, while I have three finger inside her pleasuring her G-Spot.  She gets soooooo turned on by both!  So much so that she can't decide which she wants me to do more, play with her pussy or pinch her nipples.  Her nipples are so sensitive that she can almost cum from having them played with.  Knowing this always turns me on, so when I can feel her starting to climax, I bite on them or pinch them harder so that I can extract every last bit of orgasm out of her.  Nothing turns me on more than making her cum!  In fact, I usually don't even try to fuck her until she has cum at least once, and usually multiple times!

After masturbating to Kat's pic, I went back to my office and I saw something that tickled my fancy...  You'll never guess what it was so I'll just show you...

Its a chainmail glove...  Hmmm...  After reading DauntlessD's post on PWK, Light Bondage Anyone?, I was reminded of Daunt's use of a mink glove.  I wondered if a chainmail glove could elicit the same kind of response and create the same kind of excitement?  I may have to borrow one this week and find out!

Have any of you ever used a chainmail glove???

Friday, January 27, 2012

Phallic Friday

This is a recent picture of JJ. No, not the kind of picture that you'd put on a driver's license or anything like that, but it got my attention. And I keep it in my phone for occasional enjoyment. ;-)

The angle of this photo makes it look a bit smaller than it is in real life.  I guess I should say, "objects in this photo are larger than they appear." LOL

Seriously, it's just delectable!

I especially like that little drip of precum.

While the guys out there may not be particularly interested in this, we post beautiful women regularly on Prowling with Kat, so it's only right that the ladies get a 'lil somethin' here.  Don't you think?

Thursday, January 26, 2012

What Gets Us Hot?!

By Kat

Way back in April 2011, soon after JJ and I met, we exchanged these "What gets me hot" lists. I went back and took a look at them and they made me smile.  I thought it might be fun to share them.
Kat's List
What gets me hot?
1. Intelligence
2. Deep wet kisses
3. Knowing a man is thinking of me when we're not together
4. A man's chest, shoulders, and arms (the sexiest part of the male body, in my opinion)
5. Knowing a man wants me as much as I want him
6. Being undressed slowly
7. A dominant man who knows what he wants and will take it without apology
8. Dirty talk...being called a slut, a whore
9. Sucking a nice hard cock slowly and deeply
10. Sucking your balls while I stroke your hard  cock
11. Tongue fucking your asshole while I stroke your  cock
12. Having my nipples played with and sucked
13. Nipple clamps
14. Giving a long, slow deep massage
15. Receiving a long, slow deep massage
16. Looking at pictures of beautiful women - both nude and partially clothed
17. Having my clit fingered slowly
18. Being fisted
19. Feeling a tongue on my clit while a hand is in my cunt
20. Masturbating while you watch
21. Masturbating while you watch and take pictures
22. Being fucked hard from behind....on my hands and knees
23. Being fucked hard from behind while bending over standing up, leaning forward on a bed
24. Being fucked hard from behind while bending over a desk or table
25. Having my hair pulled while kissing and fucking
26. Rough sex
27. Anal intercourse
28. Feeling you kiss my neck
29. Cum in my mouth
30. Cum on my face
31. Cuddling
32. Trying different positions
32. Dirty text messages
33. Anticipating great sex

JJ's List
Here is what gets me hot:
Intelligence-nothing worse than being physically attracted to someone and then finding out that's all they bring to the table.
Knowing a woman is thinking about me
Dirty pics while I'm at work
Watching a woman undress
A woman undressing me
Massages-Both giving and receiving!
Coming up behind me and pressing her breasts up against me
Sucking on nipples
Laying naked beside me legs intertwined with mine
Caressing a woman's inner thigh
Fingering a wet pussy
Licking a woman's clit while I finger her pussy
Licking a woman's clit while I finger her ass hole
Tongue fucking her ass hole
My cock pressed against a woman's ass while I play with her nipples
Dirty talk
A woman on all fours ass up in the air
looking back at me with a wicked smile
Titty fucking
Anal sex
Being told to fuck harder
Light Spanking
Soft kisses... Anywhere
Texting me what you want to do to me later

As I read back over JJ's list, I noticed a couple of things that we haven't tried yet.  So, JJ, watch out!  ;-)

Wednesday, January 25, 2012


As you may or may not know. I am in love with Kat! Only one problem... She has a husband and I have a wife. And yet, the two of us have managed to come together and make our relationship work. Some of you may think it is just about sex, but it isn't. Well, maybe at first it was. But over time I have come to know this amazing person who is the most incredible business woman, mother, lover, friend a man could ever ask for. This blog will chronicle our relationship. The good, the bad, (hopefully not too much bad!), and of course the sex!